Do You Know What Your Woman Wants This Christmas?
Something happens to men when they enter a mall. Women become invigorated and love the thrill of the hunt. Men on the other hand would rather walk in with a specific store list, map, and the nearest escape route (preferably to a bar). Otherwise, they can begin to feel their testicles shrivel, mouth become dry, and hyperventilation set in. It isn't fair and there is just too much stuff!
Women, if you want something, write it down on a list, and stick the list in his wallet. Keep it to five things - maximum. Write the price range, and best store to purchase the item at. Let him know about the list and update it regularly. Include in the list your favorite color, flower, and clothing size you wear (the actual size, not like your drivers license weight.)
If you don't have a list to go on, I have five options that should work for about 80% of women. Oh, and as a note, we consider gift cards cheating unless we specifically request them. I don't care what the commercials say. That isn't what we want. Also, clothing is completely off limits unless we have sent you in for a specific item, in a specific color and specific size. We have to try on an item and see how it, and the two sizes above and below, fit. Trust me, you don't know us that well.
The first sure-fire gift is a bouquet of flowers that tells us you have planned dinner out complete with babysitting (for those that have kids) and coffee after. There isn't much a romantic dinner can't solve. We like to know that you have thought about the elements of a night out. If you have it to splurge, then a night at a great hotel is more than likely to end very well.
The next super great gift is several spa items. Bath salts, scented (or unscented if she has allergies) candles, and a warm soft robe are all items that say, "I want to take care of you." They are all going to be well received and can be tailored to fit any women's tastes and interests. For example, there is organic cotton, all the way to fine Egyptian cotton robes. Find the one that best suites your budget.
Still thinking, not quite what you had in mind. Then look to her sweet side. Most women can be wooed with splendid chocolates and gourmet coffee. It is a gift that will last every morning (at least for a while) that spoils her senses. Better yet, give her the gift of a coffee club membership to treat her for a full year. Most on-line gourmet coffee retailers offer this option. If you don't know what she likes, then purchase a few different coffees to let her try. One stipulation, do not get any version of canned coffee or "store bought" chocolate. The chocolate must be in a box, or don't bother.
Almost every woman could use a couple of good pens and a planner. It is very frustrating to hunt through you purse and not have a pen. Even more frustrating is to hunt for a pen, then find one that doesn't work. Good choices are Pentel R.S.V.P, and Pilot G-2. They are relatively inexpensive and work until the ink is gone. All planners serve the same purpose, so get one that fits her schedule and interests (you can find everything from pretty pink leather to all recycled components and every thing in between).
For the green thumb gal, then a potted plant is a nice choice. Flowers like African Violets, and miniature roses both bloom year around and require minimal upkeep. They make a pretty decoration and most importantly will remind her that you are thinking of her. (It is like a bouquet that keeps on growing).
Men, don't be afraid to ask a women what she wants. We all know what we want. We just need to know how much you are willing to spend. Any of the above mentioned ideas may be catered to fit almost any women at any point in her life. Women want to be pampered and adored. We want gifts that reflect our style, and not yours. If all else fails, then a framed picture of the two of you will be enough to get you through this holiday.
About the Author
Hannah Jennings is the Co-Owner of Nectar of Life Gourmet Coffee. She is an expert gift giver and specializes in custom gift baskets. To help with your holiday shopping this year check out her Gifts at www.nectaroflife.com.
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